Be led by the Spirit

Quilting bee

One day this past year I signed into Twitter and noticed that I had a new follower, a pastor’s wife in Phoenix, Arizona, Norma Washington. I thought, “Who in the world is this and why is she following me?” I went on her page, and noticed she had written and published a book, Saturday Morning Sisterhood. I loved the orange coffee cup cover, and was intrigued by the title.

I sent her a direct message on Twitter, asking her, “How did you hear about me? Just curious.”  She sent back a blunt reply, “Divine appointment. Buy my book!” I thought, “THE NERVE!  Who is this woman?”   But her boldness worked, and I bought her book.  I then sent her another message and said, “I bought your book. Now buy mine!”  That boldness had rubbed off on me! And she did buy it.

After we read each other’s books (which we both liked), and had emailed each other a few times, Norma felt led by God’s Spirit to invite me to speak on prayer at her women’s conference in Phoenix, Arizona in January 2010. I went and am so glad I did.  She’s a a beautiful, anointed woman on fire for God, and while there I met Michelle Weston (another lovely, anointed woman of God), and some wonderful ladies in the audience!

It was such a blessing to be there. Norma now has invited me back to speak in October 2010 for the She Shall Be Called Woman conference. (Registration has begun, and you can grab your tickets here. It is going to be great!)

It is interesting to me that Norma and I met on Twitter, how God brought us into each other’s lives. It used to be that as the West was expanding and settlers, who’d brought their families and everything they owned in covered wagons, built homes on the prairie and women would form relationships through the growing community – barn building, quilting bees, cooking together, church, parties, etc. They were often also brought together through practical needs, such as needing food or treating sickness.

Now the post-modern culture of women network online. Beautiful friendships can be formed from these relationships. I have met some of the best friends of my life online! The degree of intimacy depends on what each woman in the relationship wants, but nevertheless the internet has opened up a world of possibility for relationships between women,  that has never existed before in the time of history.

I have even made a dear friend all the way in Russia, Nika Aksutin, who contacted me last year after reading my blog. Nika and her husband are missionaries to Russian Jews, and you can read their blog at Far East Russian For God’s Glory. Please keep Nika and her husband in prayer as they continue the work of the Lord in Russia.  Isn’t this incredible how the net made such a distant friendship possible?  I may have never “met” Nika without the web!  God is so good!  I hope one day I can actually meet her in real life! (IRL)

Both Norma and Nika contacted me through the internet, being led by God’s Spirit. What about you? Do you live your life in such a way as to be led by His Holy Spirit? Do you hear God’s voice clearly? Are you sensitive to how the Holy Spirit is guiding you each day? Are you asking Him to show you the path to walk on each day and to bring the people into your life that He wants to minister to you and to bless you?  And to bring you into others’ paths, too, so that you can minister to and bless them? (2 Corinthians 3:3)

Today be led by the Spirit.  And who knows, maybe today is the day that you will meet that new best friend online!  :)

Beth Jones

Unique art

Venice glass, Nelson-Atkins Museum

This week was so beautiful that I really wanted to get out and do something fun, so Leah and I went out the door to the Kansas City Atkins Nelson art gallery.  This week there was a new  exhibit, the Venice blown glass, made from plastic bottles that washed up on the beach.

The picture here doesn’t do these rare pieces of glass justice; they were gorgeous, in an array of colors.  I wanted to buy one, but didn’t happen to have the $935 spare change in our budget to purchase one! If you happen to be in the Kansas City, MO, area, be sure to check this exhibit out. It only cost me a little gas money and $5 for parking; admission is free.

The art gallery is a place we enjoy going to for field trips, and the museum’s contemporary art was intriguing.  I looked at a couple of the pieces, and commented to Leah, “Is this really art?”  Leah, an incredible artist herself, said that art is whatever the artist creates, and it doesn’t always conform to other people’s ideas! :O  Here is one example of the contemporary art.

Contemporary art – what is it?

To its credit, the Kansas City museum also is hostess to Monet’s Water Lilies, paintings by Rembrandt, Cezanne, and Van Gogh, Italian sculptures,  stained glass windows,  the 19th century Egyptian Expeditionary Photography, aristocratic Persian textiles, Chinese and Japanese brush-ink zen paintings, African art, and much more.

When we left the museum, I was thinking about what a contrast Monet’s Water Lilies was to some of the contemporary pieces, what I viewed as – well, to put it in a nice way, not art.  Then I thought about how God has created each of us, wonderfully and fearfully in our mothers’ wombs, by His own hands. (Psalm 139:14)  You are God’s unique work of art!

Some people may believe that you are not beautiful art at all, but God doesn’t see you that way. He made you, He loves you, and He is forming you into the image of His Son Jesus. He has a great plan and purpose for your life, an incredible destiny!  He has put spiritual gifts inside of  you that He wants to use for His glory.

Contemporary art piece, Kansas City Nelson-Atkins museum

Maybe you are the one who feels like you are not beautiful art. You compare yourself with others, and feel that you just don’t measure up to them. 

 Maybe you’re struggling with some sin in your life, or you can’t seem to overcome some problems that you’re experiencing in your life and you blame yourself. If you were just prettier, thinner, smarter, richer, more tech savvy, knew the right people, whatever…you always seem to “come up short” somehow.  Dear friend, don’t feel that way. In God’s eyes, you are His masterpiece!

 “O Israel, can I not do to you as this potter has done to his clay? As the clay is in the potter’s hand, so are you in my hand. ” (Jeremiah 18:6)

God has a wonderful plan for your life, good plans, not bad.  (Jeremiah 29:11) God sees the finished product of your life, the end result of His work, the piece de resistance!  God wants to put you on display for His glory, just as the Nelson Atkins art gallery in Kansas City is exhibiting the Venice blown glass!  Just believe. There is greatness inside of you!

Art by Leah Jones

Please do not copy.  Copyright 2009 Leah Jones

Ultimate Homeschool Expo 2010 is here

UHSE 2010

I don’t attend many online events through the year, but there is one event I make sure to fit into my schedule each year – the Ultimate Homeschool Expo!  It is here again, and each year it gets better and better. I have listened to the audios from last year over and over for encouragement for this school year.

Cindy Rushton has a GREAT line-up of anointed speakers this year. Even if you do NOT homeschool, these sessions will bless you so much – they are women of God with a passion for Jesus. You not only get every speaker’s mp3 audio sessions, but ebooks, bonus audios, planning pages, notebook pages, unadvertised gifts from the speakers, doorprizes and so much more! 

Just yesterday I won a doorprize at Molly Everett’s session on marriage  (Counter Cultural Mom).  She and Cindy donated Molly’s “My Audio School,” which is a wealth of online homeschooling resources!  Leah and I began to dig into it today, and it is incredible.

I am giving away one free ticket to the Expo. Just leave your name and email address with a comment here at any of my blogs or on my Facebook fan page at http://www.facebook.com/#/pages/Kansas-City-MO/Beth-Jones-Christian-SpeakerWriter/187518037922?ref=mf. I will be picking a random winner by Friday, April 30, 2010.

If you want to be SURE to attend this event (and you do NOT want to miss it!), grab your ticket for the Ultimate Homeschool Expo (UHSE 2010)  here TODAY!  You will be so blessed!  Be sure to use my link to purchase your ticket. :)     http://tiny.cc/9zmzi

Spring cleaning our hearts

This is the time of year we spring clean our homes, getting the dust, dirt, and clutter under control!  Just as we like getting our houses clean, why not let’s take some time to spring clean our hearts?  Join Beth Jones today for some practical, Biblical tools to help you do just that.

Gaining confidence when you speak

In the Middle ages the system of apprenticeships was developed as an inexpensive form of employment in exchange for food, lodging, and formal training. Most apprentices began at ten to fifteen years old, and would live in the master craftsman’s home.

Most apprentices were males, but some females were apprentices in the fields of seamstress, tailor, cordwainer (shoemaker), baker, and stationer (making stationery).  The modern idea of internship is similar to apprenticeship, as well as internet coaching.  Beginners in any field learn best from those who have forged ahead of them, and who have experienced great success.

One of my favorite speakers/writers who inspires me  is Sheila Wray Gregoire, author of Honey, I Don’t Have A Headache Tonight and author of the blog To Love, Honor, and Vacuum.  Sheila is a devout Christian, is loving, truthful, wise, and is extremely funny.  She gives you practical, straight-forward, non-fluff help.  Sheila has a wealth of various resources for speakers and writers at her website, including VERY reasonably priced training resources for beginners.

Recently Sheila published my article at her website as a guest post, Gaining Confidence To Speak.  Here it is to encourage you in your speaking business.  Be sure to check out Sheila’s  resources while you are there.  Enjoy!  http://christianwomensspeaker.wordpress.com/2010/04/04/gaining-confidence-to-speak

How to achieve your success

Beth Jones

Today I was riding along in my car, minding my own business, when suddenly God spoke to me – from the tailgate of the truck in front of me!  The sign on the tailgate simply said, “The groundwork for your success.” Of course, this got the wheels to moving (pardon the pun!), and I whipped out my FLIP recorder and made a short vlog. 

The key to our success will be found in our daily quiet time with God as we seek His face. Learn more below.   I present this vlog to you now, potholes and all!  (Talk to the city about the bumps in the street!) 

Enjoy!

Quiet Time For Kids

Today’s blog is a guest post from my dear friend, Lois Graham, speaker and author. Lois has two wonderful websites you will just love, http://lois-graham.com and Building Blocks 4 Life, http://buildingblocks4life.com.

Enjoy!

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Quiet Time For Kids

by Lois Graham

Encourage your children to have a personal quiet time with the Lord. Having a quiet time doesn’t have to be complicated or difficult. Even young children can have a personal quiet time.

Spending time in prayer and Bible study helps us to build a close and personal relationship with the Lord Jesus. The content will vary depending on their age, but the habit of having a time to grow in the Lord is what’s important. Don’t make having a quiet time a drudgery. It should be like spending time with a special friend.

Come near to God and he will come near to you. James 4:8 (NIV)

Try these tips to help your child start a quiet time:

  • Work with your child to find a time each day they can have a personal quiet time. Don’t nag, but encourage them daily.
  • Find an age appropriate Bible and devotional that includes scripture.
  • Get a CD or Mp3 player with the Bible on it for young children.
  • Give them ideas on how to have a quiet time. Include reading their Bible and devotional and a time of prayer. Explain to young children how to listen to God’s word and pray.
  • Give young children paper, crayons, and a pencil. Let them draw pictures of the stories they are listening to.
  • Older children can dig into a topic that interest them or a study on a specific topic. It could be a book of the Bible, growing into a godly woman or man, or a specific character trait.
  • Teach your children that their time of prayer doesn’t need to be a time of just asking for things. Let them know they can talk to God like a friend. God wants to hear our requests and praise. Help them make a prayer journal they can write request and praises in.
  • Set an example. Have your own quiet time with the Lord. Dig into the scriptures and let God speak to you. Talk to God through prayer. Write your prayer request and praises in a prayer journal.
  • Ask your children about their quiet time. Show an interest in what they are learning.

Acknowledge the God of your father, and serve him with wholehearted devotion and with a willing mind, for the LORD searches every heart and understands every motive behind the thoughts. 1 Chronicles 28:9 (NIV)

Relaxation tips for busy wives and moms

Today after writing an article, recording a podcast, sending out my subscriber ezine, loading the dishwasher, cooking dinner, buying a few groceries, sweeping the kitchen, emptying the trash, and ironing my husband’s uniform, I FINALLY sat down on our green couch in the den to relax!  Now normally, I don’t do ALL those things in one day. But today was just one of those hectic, busy days.

Today’s wives and moms are constantly on the go, and live very hurried and often stressful lives.  As busy wives and moms, we need time to destress and to get a break. What do you do to relax?

Be sure to take a few minutes today to have “mom time” – take a hot bubble bath with lavender or myrrh oil, shop for an outfit, read a good book, go for a walk, or watch a chic flic. Jesus died on the cross for you because He views you as precious in His sight. You are so worth it! God wants you to be happy and at peace, so take care of yourself, too!

To learn more about relaxation tips for moms, click here.

Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead trip

Leah by dogwood tree at Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead park

I love this time of year when the trees and flowers are in bloom, and the sun is coming out, not too hot with a cool breeze. It was just too pretty to stay inside today, so Leah and I took off on a field trip to Deanna Rose Children’s Farmstead park in Overland Park, KS. 

They have lots of farm animals, and even a few wild ones such as the buffalo, prairie dogs, the bald eagle, a falcon, and bobcats. The park’s landscape with brightly colored tulips, blooming dogwoods and other trees, and fountains is beautiful. It’s very relaxing, and it only cost Leah and me $4 for the entrance fee. You can grab some snacks there, eat before you go to save money, or pack a picnic lunch to eat there.

My favorite animals are the bobcats. They pace in the cage and I feel sorry for them, but am grateful for the opportunity to see them up close. Leah likes them, too, and the baby goats, rabbits, and horses.   Here’s a short clip of the bobcats. Enjoy!

The Mundane and God

(Rebekah watering camels – image from www.childrenschapel.org/biblestories/eliezer.html)

Have you ever been going about your every day routine when all of a sudden, you were given God’s unexpected (and undeserved!) showers of blessings?  That is what happened to Rebekah, Bethuel’s daughter.  One day she was out filling her pitcher of water at the well for her family – doing the daily grind – when the hand of God opened a door to a great destiny for her that she had no idea was even there!

In Genesis chapter 24, we read how Abraham told his oldest servant to go find a bride for his son Isaac from his own family outside Mesopotamia. He wanted to make sure that Isaac would not wind up marrying one of those Canaanite women where they lived! (Canaanites were idolaters). 

The servant took ten of his master’s camels and when he arrived at the well outside the city, he prayed, asking God for favor to find Isaac a wife.  He specifically requested that the one who offered to give him a drink, and to water his camels, would be the right woman.  (When we pray, we should pray SPECIFICALLY for what we want! Not so that God understands what we want, but so we do! And you know this would have to be a MIGHTY woman of God, offering to give his camels water, too!)

Just at that moment, beautiful Rebekah came out with a pitcher on her shoulder. The servant ran to meet her and said, “Please, let me drink a little water from your pitcher.”  He didn’t waste any time. This man was on a mission!

Notice how graciously Rebekah responded to this man, who was a complete stranger.  Good thing she didn’t have an attitude that day and say, “Get your own drink, buddy!”  She would have been really sorry later! 

 ”So she said, ‘Drink, my lord.” Then she quickly let her pitcher down to her hand, and gave him a  drink. And when she had finished giving him a drink, she said, “I will draw water for your camels also, until they have finished drinking.”  Then she quickly emptied the pitcher into the trough, ran back to the well to draw water, and drew for all his camels.” (Genesis 24:16-25)

Sometimes we read things like this in the Bible and miss the little details.  Now, listen!  Camels drink enormous amounts of water at one time.  A very thirsty camel can gulp 36 gallons of water in six minutes!  This servant had TEN camels with him, so this was a lot of water for Rebekah to draw!  

Her unselfish, humble service put her in a prime position for promotion in the kingdom of God!  The servant was silent, watching her, and asked about her family.  “So she said to him, “I am the daughter of Bethuel, Milcah’s son, whom she bore to Nahor.” (Nahor was Abraham’s brother.)  

But Rebekah didn’t stop there, politely answering his question. She then offered him some generous hospitality.  “Moreover she said to him, “We have both straw and feed enough, and room to lodge.”   Now the servant couldn’t help himself; he began praising God!  God had answered his prayers.  And unknowing, innocent bystander Rebekah was about to have her socks blessed off!

After explaining everything and giving her just a taste of what was to come, with a golden  nose ring and two bracelets weighing ten shekels of gold, the servant waited while Rebekah ran to tell her mother’s household what had happened -talk about divine appointments! 

Rebekah’s brother Laban then ran to meet him by the well, inviting him to his house, and an already prepared place for the camels, too.  Have you noticed all the running that takes place in this chapter? When God  moves, He moves FAST!  

Abraham’s servant  explained everything to Rebekah’s family at their home and asked if they’d deal kindly with him.  Laban and Bethuel said, “The thing comes from the Lord; we cannot speak to you either bad or good. Here is Rebekah; take her and go, and let her be your master’s son’s wife, as the Lord has spoken.” 

Whoo-hoo!  The servant worshipped God, bowing himself to the earth. Then he gave the girlfriend some nice bling!  Jewelry of silver, gold, and clothing.   He also gave “precious things” to her brother and to her mother.  You know mama was impressed!  Then he and the men ate and drank, and he stayed all night.

The next morning her brother and her mom didn’t want Rebekah to go yet, and asked if she could stay home at least ten more days.  Understandable, really!   But he said, “Do not hinder me, since the Lord has prospered my way; send me away so that I may go to my sister.  So they said, “We will call the young woman and ask her personally.”  Then they called Rebekah and said to her, “Will you go with this man?”  And she said, “Yes, I will go.” 

Rebekah had not even laid eyes on Isaac, and had no idea what kind of husband he would be.  She would be far from home, away from the safety of her family.  She was leaving all that was familiar and loved to embrace the unfamiliar, the uncertain, maybe even the fearful.  Yet this young woman responded in absolute faith and trust in God!

Dear friends, the words of our mouth, and our family’s word spoken over our lives, are so important to shape our future and our children’s future!   Now her family spoke prophetic blessings over her, which did come to pass:  “Our sister, may you become the mother of thousands of ten thousands, and may your descents possess the gates of those who hate them.”  

Now Rebekah and her maids left, riding on the camels with the servant.  You can imagine all that Rebekah, and her family, must have been feeling as she rode away.  God was already getting Isaac’s heart ready to meet his beautiful bride.  As they approached, in the field at Beer Lahai Roi (“The well of the One who liveth and seeth me”), Isaac was meditating.  Rebekah lifted her eyes and saw him.

She dismounted from the camel and asked the servant who the man was, walking to meet them. The servant told her, “It is my master.”  Can you imagine how hard her heart must have been beating?  What if this man she was supposed to marry was dog ugly or mean as a snake?

“So she took a veil and covered herself.” Veiling during the betrothal period was a Near Eastern custom. The unveiling came after the marriage.

The servant then told Isaac everything that had happened, and Isaac took her into his mother Sarah’s tent. “And she became his wife and he loved her.” ( Genesis 24:67)

A love story doesn’t get any better than that!

A few things stand out about this story:

  • We can run straight into God and His wonderful purposes, doing the mundane tasks of life.
  • Prayers need to be specific.
  • Rebekah’s servant heart and faith in God brought her great blessings and an incredible, historical destiny.
  • She went beyond the call of duty in helping a stranger. (Sometimes we can entertain angels – or divine appointments! – unaware.)
  • Rebekah had to be willing to leave what was familiar and safe to say “yes” to God, and as a result she experienced a new, exciting adventure, the desires of her heart for love, and her great future.
  • Sometimes when you’re least expecting it, God miraculously sends showers of blessing on your life!

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