Are you hitting those goals you made earlier this year—or even last week? On Friday, October 23, 2015, my eBookThe Hands of a Woman: Everyday Women In Everyday Battleswill be uploaded on Amazon.This will accomplish a goal I’ve had TWO years now–to get all ten of the books I’ve written available as an Ebook on Amazon for the Kindle!
This powerful book has eight women’s true, inspiring stories of how they overcame their strongest spiritual battles through prayer, faith in Jesus Christ, and standing on God’s Word. Stories dealing with topics like:
a bank robbery
the death of a child
the death of a baby
a husband addicted to cocaine
childhood sexual and physical abuse
a missionary’s child harassed by a demon
Whether you realize it or not, every day you’re surrounded by spiritual warfare, even though you can’t see it with your physical eyes. But the battle is real. Satan comes as a thief to steal, kill, and destroy.(John 10:10)
In this book, you learn about the most powerful weapon you have as a believer in Christ to defeat the enemy Satan–the word of God. It is the weapon Jesus used when he was tempted in the wilderness by the devil. God’s word stands forever! (1 Peter 1:25)
I plan to offer the eBook FREE to you all day and night on Friday, October 23, 2015; then it will be for sale for only $3.99.
Grab your copy tomorrow at Amazon and please be sure to share about this with your family, friends, and business peers.
I’m reading a pile of books right now (LOVE books for a few cents or dollars on sale at Amazon! You can get mine, too, on prayer for just 99 cents by clicking here.) A great book that I just finished was Stormie O’Martian’s biography, Stormie: A Story of Forgiveness and Healing
Wow, great read! This book is one of amazing hope through faith in Christ, but contains graphic descriptions of childhood abuse. Stormie was raised by a mother, Virginia, who was schizophrenic, but she wasn’t diagnosed until years later when Stormie was grown and had moved out of the house.
No one was sure what caused her mental illness, but it resulted in her targeting Stormie throughout her childhood with cruelty and hatred. Stormie had another younger sister, Suzy, but for some reason, her mother was not abusive toward her as she was Stormie. After Stormie moved out of the house, her anger was targeted toward her husband (Stormie’s dad).
Virginia’s life had been scarred by trauma. When she was 11 years old, her mom died in childbirth just a few hours after she had scolded Virginia, sent her to her room and Virginia wished her mother was dead. She felt responsible, guilty, rejected, and she never recovered from the grief.
In another instance, the father in one of the foster families she stayed with after her mother’s death committed suicide. She believed she was responsible for the deaths of the two most important people in her life. She entered a fantasy world she could deal with and was the center of it, and where she was persecuted unjustly. In her created world, she was blameless.
During her teen years, Virginia contracted scarlet fever and almost died, and family members began noticing her strange behavior more after that. Others, especially her husband, noticed it after she married. She became even more emotionally unstable and moody.
But because she appeared so normal at times, no one realized just how serious her mental illness was. There were no clear-cut answers, whether it was a chemical imbalance she was born with, the traumas in her life had crippled her, her brain had been damaged by scarlet fever, or that no one recognized signs of mental illness in her teens.
She tried to get out of the small town where she lived to attend college for art and music, but there wasn’t enough money and her father strongly opposed it. This frustration added to her growing bitterness and insecurity. She felt her father treated both of her sisters better and she was jealous of them.
Stormie – locked in closets
In childhood, Virginia was put in the closet for punishment sometimes, which she later did frequently to Stormie for hours for things as simple as asking for a glass of water. Abused children sometimes grow up to abuse their own children, something Stormie was horrified to realize when she married and had her own baby boy.
She would call Stormie obscene names and used corporal punishment as her sole means of discipline, slapping her across the mouth or on the head. These were the only times Stormie was “touched” by her mother.
Virginia wouldn’t clean the filthy house, leaving dishes with food that molded, and if Stormie tried to clean or wash dishes, she’d yell, “This is my house, not yours! If I want it clean, I’ll do it myself!”
Her behavior was consistently inconsistent, and if Stormie tried to do something really wrong like drive the car without a license or set bedroom curtains on fire, Virginia would say nothing.
But when she “necked” with a boy in the church parking lot while there was a youth party in the fellowship hall and got caught, Virginia told her she was “whoring around” and took her to the pastor. She also read Stormie’s diary, in which Stormie fantasized about boys, and Virginia would call her a “whore” and a “slut” frequently. She forbid her to go to her few friends’ houses after school, accusing her of “whoring around,” leaving Stormie hopeless about having a normal, good, fun life.
“Your mind is very sick!” ~ Stormie’s suicide attempt
One time Virginia hid Stormie’s white skirt in her room, asked where it was, and when Stormie couldn’t find it, she accused her of giving it away to friends, ranting about her negligence. Later Stormie found it in her bedroom closet and her mother said it had probably been there all along, and that she must be going crazy. “Your mind is very sick. I believe you’re mentally ill.”
Incidents like these were common. Stormie began to believe her. She wrote in her diary: “I am going crazy. I’m a misfit. I don’t belong anywhere. I can’t think clearly. I’m lost.” She began to question why she was even alive. When Virginia forbid her to go to her friend’s house across the street anymore or to use the phone, Stormie tried to overdose on Bufferin, sleeping pills, and a couple of prescription drugs. She laid down to go to bed, believing she’d finally be free of her pain.
When she awoke at 1 a.m, she felt weak, dizzy, and sick to her stomach. What had gone wrong? Why was she still alive? In the middle of the night, her mother had made her drink something to empty her stomach of the pills. Stormie ran to the bathroom when she woke up and saw the empty bottles in the trash can.
Behind her locked door, she heard her mother vacuuming. She did this whenever something horrible happened to cope. I found that so strange! Virginia never mentioned the suicide attempt to her husband or to Stormie again. If Stormie had told her dad, Virginia would’ve said she was lying and he would’ve believed her. So they pretended everything was fine. A dysfunctional family’s response to what is really going on, such as alcoholism, drug addiction, or abuse, is most often denial and/or lies.
Schizophrenia: her mother’s hallucinations
Stormie knew something was terribly wrong with her mother. Virginia would often stay awake all night long, talking to imagine people. In her later years, she thought the FBI was shooting laser beams at her head for her having communist secrets and that the Mafia were after her. She started believing people were watching her from the inside of the t.v. or following her when she left the house.
When her husband or Stormie would tell her these things weren’t true, she’d become hysterical. Stormie wrote that the number of people trying to kill her increased – the communists, the Catholics, the blacks the whites, the rich, the poor, Baptists, Armenians, the Kennedys, and on and on until the list became almost everyone the family knew.
One night Stormie had a nightmare and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water. Her mother had a knife upraised in her hand and a sinister smile crossed her face as she looked at Stormie, terrified and backing away in fear. She laughed a wild, howling cackle as Stormie ran to her bed, shaking in fear. For years Stormie was terrified of knives.
A crazy house
Stormie never knew what to expect, but she knew she couldn’t bring friends home – if she made friends at all. “I was often aware that I lived in a crazy house – not like the homes of normal people. There was no laughter, no fun, no peace in our lives, and no hope for it ever being different.”
Stormie’s plan was to finish high school and get out of that house as fast as possible. All her activities were geared toward that goal.
Stormie then takes the reader on her long, compelling journey of:
buying a car with $200 with her own hard-earned money to become more independent;
going away to college at UCLA, majoring in music;
dysfunctional relationships with men with no commitment, especially married men;
addiction to pot and drinking alcohol heavily;
workaholism and her increasingly successful career in t.v., commercial, acting, singing, and movies, while hiding her battles with depression, suicidal thoughts, anxiety attacks, self-doubts, and intense fears;
becoming involved in the occult – Ouija boards, horoscopes, astral projection, seances, numerology, hypnotism, eastern religions, and Science of Mind;
2 abortions, one of them illegal in an obscure, low-class hotel in Los Vegas with no anesthetic, with Stormie bound to secrecy and blind-folded and with a gag over her mouth. This abortion was the most excruciating pain in Stormie’s life as the doctor scraped and cut the baby out of her. It resulted in a surgery in a hospital later to stop the bleeding that occurred for weeks afterward;
her salvation in Christ and her growing in knowledge of God’s agape love for her and unconditional forgiveness for her sins;
her marriage to Rick out of fear of being alone, after the terrifying Sharon Tate murder tragedy, and Stormie’s painful divorce;
her introduction to Michael O’Martian and their turbulent marriage;
realizing after she married and had a baby boy, that she was capable of abusing her child, one night slapping him all over his body and screaming at him to stop crying. She realized she was one step away from throwing him across the room, and got on her knees, begging God to forgive her and take these horrible feelings from her;
inner healing and spiritual deliverance from her pastor Jack Hayford and deliverance minister Sarah Ann.
forgiveness of not only her mother for abusing her, but also of her father for not protecting her;
burying her mother – with there being no unforgiveness, no anger, no resentment, no unsettled scores. God had cleansed Stormie of it all before her death;
speaking to inmates at a prison about her story. She was terrified, but God told Stormie, “I’m a Redeemer. I redeem all things. It doesn’t matter what you have done, it doesn’t matter what’s happened to you. I can take all the hurt, the pain, the scars, and I can not only heal them, but I can make them count for something.” She shared her story of pain and redemption and received a standing ovation from the inmates. The Holy Spirit had moved and for 3 days, many in that prison were healed of past hurts in that prison. Truly Jesus sets the captives free.
This was a fascinating book. Stormie’s account of her childhood abuse is heart-wrenching. You can sense how difficult and confusing it was for her to live with a mother with such severe mental illness, and wonder with Stormie that question, “Why, God? Why did this happen?”
But the book also offers refreshing hope about the power of faith in Jesus Christ. God can take a life filled with despair and hopelessness, restore and redeem it for His glory. Stormie’s life is testimony of this. She is now a best-selling author and speaker, sharing her story of hope across the nation. You might recognize her title, The Power of a Praying Wife, which I’m currently reading also.
The book also covers the 3 topics that I’m writing about in my new book, Promises In The Dark, about abuse, abortion, and adultery. (Sign up on my ezine list to be the first to hear about its soon release in 2014!) I read Stormie’s book with eagerness to see how she would delicately handle these emotionally-charged, theologically difficult subjects. She did an amazing job of expressing her emotions and her motives and reasons for many of her sinful behaviors, while at the same time not justifying them.
Stormie did an incredible job, too, sharing about the ministry of inner healing and deliverance for the lay reader, describing her own halting, uncertain, fearful journey from victim to victor in Christ.
I’ve been praying for the families of those killed and hurt in the Boston Marathon tragedy. It’s scary and so horrible. Our daughter Heather is a runner and runs 5k’s. She has some planned for this year. I urged her this week that we should always pray about where we are going and what we will do each day, so we will be under God’s sheltering wings of protection (Psalm 91).
Heather said she knows. She also said she will not stop running. This is true for us as believers, too. We need to press on until we finish the race and reach the high prize of Jesus Christ. (Philippians 3:14)
Runners inspire me. So do NIKE running commercial videos. This week I found a new one at YouTube, which inspired me for our RELEASED! Women’s Conference. We are getting closer to the date, and seats are filling up fast. Four more women registered this week. To secure your seat NOW, click here.
You can also register online at Event Brite, which gives you more payment options (Paypal, credit/debit card, invoice by email, check or cash at the door). To secure your seat using Event Brite, click here.
In the NIKE commercial, these lines at the end of the video inspired me: “Tonight I defy the ticking clock and the limits you’ve put on me.”
You can view this very unique video by clicking on the link below:
As a child, I was sexually and physically abused. Abuse shames children, fills them with condemnation. It causes them to feel unworthy of anything good.
God has done an amazing work of healing in me. The closer I grow to Him, the more I realize that He created me for a wonderful, Divine purpose to glorify Him.
The greatest gifts God has ever given me other than my salvation are my beautiful, precious children and grandchildren, and my most precious, sacred calling is that of being a mother. I believe in my heart that there can be no higher calling than this.
God has also given me other gifts, a unique purpose from Him. I have begun to walk more deeply in that purpose the last several years, speaking, writing, and coaching.
The abuse I went through as a child was Satan’s attempt to rob me of my purpose and to cause me to think that I was unworthy of love and of God’s good things. That my life was limited.
In and of myself, I’m not worthy of receiving anything good from God, but through a relationship with Him I am deserving of all His unfathomable, eternal riches. I am a co-heir with Christ. Everything good that belongs to Jesus belongs to me! ALL GOOD THINGS COME FROM GOD! (Romans 8:17; Galatians 4:7; James 1:17)
In God there are no limits. Nothing is impossible with Him.
If someone has tried to put limits on you as a child or through adulthood, you don’t have to receive that. Or maybe you have put those limits on yourself.
You don’t have to be held back by those limits now.
You don’t have to wear that label anymore. Rip it off.
You are a new creation in Christ. (2 Corinthians 5:17)
This is the year for new things. God has great things for you ahead.
“See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.” – Isaiah 43:19, NIV
NO LIMITS! NO LABELS!
NEW YOU. NEW DREAMS FULFILLED. NEW PURPOSE.
Believe and just see what God will do!
Don’t wait! Don’t make excuses! Believe for a money miracle!
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